"Please Give" Review

With complex characterizations, dark humor, and masterful subtlety, “Please Give” makes for a refreshing alternative to the sequels, remakes, and commercial slop plaguing the multiplexes.

In “Please Give,” Kate, played by Catherine Keener, constantly worries about others. From the elderly to the homeless, she is troubled by the terrible circumstances of those around her. This complete sense of guilt annoys both her husband (Oliver Platt) and daughter (Sarah Steele). When Kate tries to buy the apartment of her neighbor, a churlish old lady (Ann Guilbert), Kate’s family begins to interact with Rebecca, the old lady’s granddaughter, as well as Rebecca’s unsympathetic sister Mary (Amanda Peet).

What makes “Please Give” great is its commitment to creating complex, layered characters. Most films nowadays ignore human complexity, instead opting for gross characterizations and two-dimensional stock characters. Thankfully, “Please Give” takes its time to fully flesh out all its characters. Due to this intense character focus, the film manages to comment on the human condition in a way that is both meaningful and emotionally sound.

Through the character of Kate, “Please Give” suggests that giving has its costs. Because Kate cares so much for the disadvantaged in society, she often ignores the needs of her family. And while Kate is sincere in her care for the poor and vulnerable, she comes to the sad realization that her guilt often conflicts with her desire to help. Some of the most telling scenes in the film come when Kate volunteers at nursing homes and for special needs organizations, only to find that her neurotic, worrisome personality often proves unhelpful.

In contrast, Rebecca performs acts of charity without truly realizing it. While many people would become argumentative and angry whilst dealing with a grumpy relative, Rebecca takes care of her often rude grandmother despite her flaws. Unlike Kate, Rebecca performs good deeds without the overbearing sense of guilt. It simply flows from her human nature. In fact, Rebecca is so intent on helping others, it seems that she often forgets to look out for herself.

It is these types of contrasts and complexities, along with stellar performances from the entire cast, which make “Please Give” smart, thought-provoking entertainment. And in the midst of one of the worst summer movie seasons in recent memory, it is a true gift.

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